Your message for today is to be mindful of where you are compromising your own feelings to pacify someone else. When we see someone in pain or adopting the role as victim as the predominant aspect of their identity, we feel challenged that by being open to how we feel, will cause the other person to spin into a darker space. Being open and honest, whether or not the information we need to share with someone appears 'positive' or 'negative', opens us up to deeper connection because we are saying to them, I care about you enough to let you know how i'm feeling too as someone that values our connection'. It holds the door open for things to change and actually comes from a very supportive space.